“so i understand you take men in your military. did you have to be born that way?” got them to stop calling me altogether.
I told them I was a conscientious objector in 2001 and never heard from any of them ever again.
when “I am not going to join, please stop calling” doesn’t work, you have to know the actual magic words.
unfortunately I fear that gets you put on a list you dont want to be on
We’re already on all the lists.