Things everybody needs to hear more often:

- you are loved
- your feelings are valid
- you deserve rest
- you don't need to be available at all times
- that's not a raven, that's a crow
- it's okay. a crow is a pretty big and cool bird, too

@schratze "you are loved" were the last words I said to my mum that I know she heard from me before she died.

#LastWords

@frantictdrinker sorry to hear that.
@schratze thank you. It was the right thing to say at the time and probably gave comfort as she died. It was nearly 18 years ago and I came to terms with it within a few weeks.