Things everybody needs to hear more often:

- you are loved
- your feelings are valid
- you deserve rest
- you don't need to be available at all times
- that's not a raven, that's a crow
- it's okay. a crow is a pretty big and cool bird, too

@schratze i generally assume all big, all-black colouration birds are crows until evidence indicates otherwise. If I see one that's impossibly big, THEN I'll possibly think "that MIGHT be a Raven", but even then I'll be checking