I don't actually need to hear "so and so heard about your thing and [BIG ANGER RESPONSE]" as "feedback" and I don't know why people think this is cheeky and cool and not like, deeply threatening to send to a woman on the internet yes even if it's FROM another woman

I get emails like this sometimes. "Your thing made me angry."

ok

guess I'll just put it in my what, probability expectations machine? thx

seems bad that we all have to grey rock this entire technical culture so frequently
@grimalkina I would read that as 'I took the time to read your thing' and take the win!