Fluffy_RuffsMar 14

Some people don’t know how to deal with an overtly sexual woman. It throws them for a loop. To some people, only men are allowed to be horny. If you’re a horny woman you must be a slut who can’t control their emotions and that’s bad.

I think it’s important for some men to realize women are people, too. I know that sounds silly to say out loud but I really think some guys think women are these completely different creatures from themselves. We’re all human and, gasp, some like to talk and joke about sex. The horror!

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tbf this board is 99.8% male and like 1/3rd autistic at that and there’s almost no posts in Lemmy Shitpost talking about how they love showing off their dicks, fucking women, being horny, jerking off etc because these guys are nerds not frat boys

Happy to be proven wrong

That’s not to say the content isn’t welcome, if it wasn’t it’d be downvoted (ask me how I know)

Mar 14 at 12:43pmWeb
Show threadtacosanonymousMar 14
I think there was some of that in nsfw. I think the biggest instance died, though.
Show threadr00tyMar 14
Yeah. But then to see it, you would have actually made the conscious choice to go to lemmynsfw, no?
Show threadThatWeirdGuy1001Mar 14
The posts are still shown on the main feed (depending on instance) just buried by everything else. Scroll long enough and you’ll see it
Show threadr00tyMar 14
Ah OK. I'm on my own instance. So I don't have any of those communities here. So in my case I won't.
Show threadLH0ezVTMar 14
It’s less that I mind or care, it’s more that straight horny content wasn’t really a thing before. Sure, people would joke around, but actual horny-posting was limited to places you had to actively seek out (like lemmynsfw). If people don’t want to draw attention to what they say, be it good or bad, they shouldn’t say things that stick out 🤷
Show threadaaa999Mar 14

i think the presumably male hornyposting takes the form of “here is an image i enjoy with no commentary,” making the subject of attraction the main focus and barely mentions the poster at all, violet’s specific brand centers violet as the main character, her feelings as central, and barely mentions the actual subject of those feelings

so there’s a real difference