RE: https://oldbytes.space/@gloriouscow/116224004520766154

There's a larger issue here here, and that is that it's trendy in certain spaces to be extreme and opinionated about your beliefs, and angry at anyone who doesn't share them. I see this a lot on Bluesky and Mastodon.

The problem is, this is a slippery slope towards ending up in a tiny bubble and losing many of your friends. And that doesn't lead to happiness or to good mental health. Not for you, and not for the people around you.

The two biggest topics I see this with lately is AI and trans discourse. The simple fact is, morality isn't absolute. Words don't have absolute meanings. Tools aren't absolutely evil or absolutely moral.

It's okay to be sad at the state of the world. I'm sad too! And it's okay to be angry at problem people (think, the billionaire class). But when you direct that anger at your peers, just because they don't share the exact moral compass you have, you're just hurting them and hurting yourself.

It's impossible to live in a world where your social circle is fully aligned with you on beliefs and morals. It just isn't. It's okay to be disappointed. But if you start cutting people off for it, you aren't making anything better.

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@lina I think half the problem really is that a lot of the Internet has got addicted to being angry at the state of the world, so they're actively looking for things to be angry about so they can portray that righteous anger.

This interacts *extremely poorly* with the fact that (as you say) on Bluesky and *ESPECIALLY* on Mastodon the "discourse" is *extremely* receptive to anti-AI stuff so "I hate AI, share if you agree!" stuff gets boosted more. There is a very narrow band of "acceptable" opinions on here and if you post stuff that validates them you get attention. Given how difficult it is to get attention on Mastodon to begin with, it's a vicious circle.

Honestly I echo what the post you quoted said, and it's part of why I reactivated my Bluesky, because at least I get the impression that people on Bluesky care about *something else in the entire world* other than tech sucking and the world being doomed.

@lina It just gets incredibly dull coming on here and seeing a feed that's just "I love open source!" and "AI is horrible, being creative is good!" Like cool, yeah, I don't like AI either, but they're obviously only posting that for clout because that shit's like catnip for Mastodon's natural user base, and Mastodon has basically *nothing outside* that natural user base.

@j0ebaldw1n Yup. Like, I posted about AI recently, but that's because I was replying to a specific situation I'm personally passionate about and I even ran a test personally to see the status quo. I don't go around posting "AI sucks" every chance I get or boosting that discourse. It's exhausting. And indeed as someone with friends who use AI, I value the health of my social circle more than that and I know cutting people off (or worse, putting them on public blast for it) is not going to do me any favors or meaningfully counter the proliferation of AI use.

I did get someone to switch from ChatGPT to Claude, because if they're going to use AI, I'd rather they use the one that doesn't have an increasingly publicly psychopathic CEO who took the first chance to become best buddies with the military industrial complex. Things aren't black and white.

@lina > implying dario isnt a dangerous psychopath

@fiore Look they all kind of are but there's degrees, you know?

Not going to claim I've done deep research or anything, I'm biased by what ends up on my feed... but at least the things Altman has been saying recently have been quite disgusting.

@lina he is honestly just quite a bit more visible . but like . comparing evil with eviler doesnt rlly make evil any better :P