Blåhaj Lemmy - Choose Your Interface

Lemmy isn’t as accepting as this suggests. I get downvoted (rejected) by the queer community here every time I talk about my asexuality. Apparently I don’t qualify because I wasn’t born asexual and became ace through childhood trauma. So I’m back to having no sexuality at all. I’m just an empty vessel. A void. It was nice to experience the perception of acceptance for a little while, at least.
I’m sorry you had to go through that. That is a shitty reason for someone to reject you. Just FYI for anyone else seeing this sexual-fluidity is valid and people don’t need to have been born a certain way to be asexual, or gay, or bi. Attraction can change with time or circumstance.