@farah have you tried watching stuff in Japanese? Watching/listening to media, especially something you like, in the language with subtitles on/lyrics displayed works for some. It's fun and shouldn't be forced, and I've heard that what's important while studying is the element of deduction, finding out the answer yourself. Look up the meanings of words, phrases, grammatical constructions etc. and try conjecturing the meaning. The context and a dictionary might help figuring it out.