its been my observation that poor people who got bullied a lot as kids end up being very kind as they get older, and affluent people who got bullied a lot as kids end up becoming ai techbro turbohitlers.

@Jenetrix There is a particular danger zone when someone is mostly very privileged but they have one thing they face discrimination for. They can't really direct their anger towards unfair systems without acknowledging all the way those systems privilege them, so they are easily tempted into blaming some specific group of people to restore a sense of order.

It isn't, like, something that's destined to happen, just a common pattern. It's really going to depend to what extent they can see their experience mirrored in the way other people are disadvantaged and use it as a jumping off point for solidarity and to what extent they come away with the impression they are the only one in the whole wide world who's ever experienced bullying.