There are like 3 people in my life who will initiate.

Lucky.

No, I’m not. Just because you are mire isolated than me, does not mean I am lucky.

what’s an ideal number of people you consider to be sufficient? just curious

I don’t have one. I find questions like this to be inflammatory.

Edit: seems a number of people think there is a specific number of freinds you need to be happy.

im not sure why you found it inflammatory as it was a genuine question. regardless, apologies

Take a moment to think about that.

Edit: love when I don’t set a standard for something without a standard and people don’t use critical thinkg.

thought about it. I’m still unsure because I was trying to have a conversation and compare numbers, but no need to elaborate I dont want to offend you further

Comparison of the amount of friends one has is not good. It does not speak to quality of the friendships and can cause further issues for people if they don’t “measure up”. Genuine curiosity can be inflammatory.

I wasnt trying to compare amount of friends. I wanted to know how many friends reach out first that you feel is a sufficient number.

I think 3 is okay imo, but I figure you’d like more than 3? unsure, hence why I asked