I always have to remember that passage, do not remember who the author was, that goes (heavily paraphrased)
Someone: Life would be so much better if that thing happened
Sometwo: yeah except for the coyotes eating our faces off
1: The what
2: Can't just pretend your life would only be good if you changed something in your past. You'd do other things different. You'd get hurt in different ways. You have to take the good with the bad.

