Aby & the Axolotls ꒰(˶• ᴗ •˶)꒱I've lost 2mm in my stretched lobes over the last two days, because my immune system is fucking around and my piercings have all gotten grumpy.
I was at 14mm (9/16") heading to 15mm, and now I'm back to 12mm (1/2").
😕
Moosey 
@An0n - I dead stretch with single flare glass plugs, and wait at least 3 months between (longer if they still feel tight).
Although, aside from this set back I'm having at the moment, I'm also having a hard time getting 14mm double flares to fit even though I've had my 14mm single flares in for over 18 months now and the lobes usually feel loose and stretchy around them.
I had a similar issue going from 10mm to 11mm in my septum.
I got the smallest flare I could, but it seemed I had to stretch to 12mm just to get the double flared tunnel in.
My lobes are at 9mm, but I'm impatient so Im doing every month (if they feel okay to do so) 😅
Good luck!
@An0n - thanks, and good luck with yours!