Is obsidian still a thing people use? I've tried logseq but it pains me. Things based on emacs are a no for me since I don't use it.
@siina alternativeto.net is your friend. Opinionated (complains about shitware and abusive software). Near universal catalog of "things that are like thing".
I have been using Obsidian for a year or two. I hate it less than all the alternatives. A lot of people like it. I especially appreciate its tables/database feature since late 2025. My monthly diary pages are now just a query of "what pages are tagged wit this month?", showing columns for project, page type, title, etc.
@siina I used LogSeq for a few months and never could get along with its "folders don't have a page body" limitation. (There's a plugin to fix that in Obsidian.)
I looked at LogSeq again a few months ago. Seems to have got better, but. But I didn't try switching from Obsidian.
If you use Obsidian, pick and try out plugins in a Sandbox notebook. Avoid installing more plugins than you absolutely need.