Diaperpail banditI want like a platonic boyfriend, does that make sense? Like we live together, we fool around together, and occasionally go out and go on dates with one another. But at the end of the day it isn’t some deeply romantic connection.
Broken Scholar (alittleodd)@Pamperbandit I'm basically the same but it's so hard to advertise, you know? For me I could allow for the romantic end of things, but I'd feel so much better if I just had a BF that I saw 3 or 4 days out of the week while living mostly separate lives.
@alittleodd yea it’s a kinda hard pitch to make, and communicate exactly what you mean across. But yes god that sounds so ideal, kinda like a best friend +
Mickey Red Panda@Pamperbandit I've seen this happen, but I also always feel weird about it personally? The reason, I've only ever seen this in a poly situation, and the person not getting that not everyone wants to date them? Like I assume if it's just a 1:1 thing it could work and just kinda advertise yourself as an Aromantic individual looking for a a long term relationship that could work.