you deserve this rule ♥️

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/39512309

Blåhaj Lemmy - Choose Your Interface

Wow a whole year of being cuddled and fed spaghetti??
That’s a lot of drinking and playing war hammer then.
cuddles, memes, and yuri. yeah.
that’s honestly the dream combo
purrrrrrrr~ catgirls too
I’d love for everyone to be polite to me and not actively or passively cause me any harm.
I treat trans women amazing and sadly i got gout for it 3:
woke country songs be like
but now you can tap into the legendary power of the gout force!

For the idiots like me who had to google it: HRT increases the risk of gout.

I was over here like “what, did you fuck someone with your big toe?”

Gout also runs in my family so there’s that too which doesn’t help. Got it in the wrist in my dominant hand which is really fun…
With love and respect like all my other friends?
so fucking pretty I cry at the thought of it?

Great… Another year of me being completely oblivious and unable to tell people what year it is.

I think I have something akin to face blindness but for gender. Not too long ago I was in a groomsmen for my buddy and his sister was one of the bridesmaids. Im told she was trans, but I had no idea, and he ended up making fun of me for not being aware of it.

Like what do you people want from me? She was in a pretty dress, how am I supposed to know?

Honestly? Based

My super power… Being to dumb to not be an ally.

All gender affirmation will be supported via my innate ability of being an oaf.

It wasn’t that you were too dumb to notice but more that it didn’t make a difference when you found out. And I’m sure she would’ve loved that you thought her dress looked good.
I’m going to only interact with the year through coincidence online?
sounds about right tbh
I treat other trans people well, but myself quite poorly, so I guess my year will treat me great unless I’m alone?

You want 2026 to fuck me?!?

TBF, that’s only 2 trans women, but still.

Guess I’m getting head for 2026 then
How exactly does 2026 eat my ass?

I never know if I’m doing enough for trans people. I like to think of my stance towards trans folk as “benevolent indifference.” That is - I don’t care even the smallest bit if someone is trans. They’re a person, and that’s all that’s needed for my respect.

But I also recognize that that position isn’t always enough. It’s like when people said “All Lives Matter” in response to the BLM movement. Yes, all lives do matter, and my goal for society would be one where “All lives matter” is the only stance you need, but we don’t live in that world and sometimes we have to focus on protecting specific groups.

But, as a white, male, cisgenger christian I also don’t want to fall into a “white savior” leadership mentality, so I never know how loudly to speak out on behalf of groups I’m not a part of.

Here’s a good one. As a white cis guy, you will be part of private conversations where people are transphobic, because there’s no trans people about. You’ll be trusted to laugh and agree. Instead, challenge their behaviour. It’s a great way to use your privilege for good.
Staying silent when people spew hate is not acceptable. You must speak out when someone is an arse. A table with 9 silent people and a nazi is a nazi bus.

Benevolent indifference is fine for the most part under normal circumstances… But like there’s a lot of things happening where the democratic process is getting actively weaponized against us trans folks. That democratic process depends on numbers and advocacy that directs your representatives to stop creating new pressures and restrictions on trans people is something where the numbers are sorely lacking and trans folk are generally tasked with just educating people they are essentially screaming into the void for help with actually writing to godsdamned representatives.

Like “white savior” stuff is a problem when you swoop in and try and protect someone as an individual. You can call your representative and get a trans high five for free because its not condescension or annoying. It’s just plain help for a lot of us who feel sorely left behind by a process that doesn’t do the greatest job of protecting minorities.

What trans person did I piss off to have my mom die right at the start of the year?
So, 2026 will leave me alone after I snap at it for making like, two straight hours of hyper-sexual “jokes” despite me having stopped engaging or laughing after the first several seconds of it, leading to a total friendship drama between her friends and me, and I get called a bigot but I literally just got tired of dildo jokes and said “I can’t take this anymore, I’ll be back later.”
2026 will call you out on your shit?

Not sure what that means.

You don’t get a free pass to be gross if it’s obviously not connecting with people no matter your gender or identity. You have a right to tell anyone that you don’t want to be around it. It’s fine to be frustrated with someone when they’re being dense.

I guess a better way to put it would be: 2026 will set up healthy interpersonal boundaries
I guess 2026 will not think of me.
I treat myself pretty badly, so this isn’t great news.
give urself a hug from me pls :3
Look after yourself miss, there’s a random Aussie here hoping you do well.
If I’m going to be treated as a woman by 2026 I’m going to have to call that some kind of misgendering tbh
Oh, delightful! I’m not exactly sure how 2026 is gonna give me sloppy head but I’m looking forward to finding out.
Beat me to it XD
I do hope 2026 will suck my gock