For a while, I've been on the fetish wrestling site Meet Fighters. I can't say I'm big into wrestling, but I'm strong enough to be able to pick up and throw guys and it may (not) shock you how many men want to have their skulls crushed. I have put together weightlifting tutorials to build the kind of strength that's useful for that: https://www.watchfighters.com/playlists/building_strength_for_lift_and_carry-qatmyutnad