Sexy human reading this (yes you) never assume someone is "out of your league"!

Attraction is a highly variable and ever-changing thing and you never know what revs someone else's engine.

Also be willing to revisit your own "type" as you get older -- you may be surprised how your tastes change over time. Lean into "yes" when asked by someone outside your norm, and if it's still a "no", say so directly and respectfully.

You're all so much sexier than you think you are.

Boosting this ^^^ anew as I had a fucking amazing time with a guy last night who at first seemed utterly unable to believe I was really into him.

Never assume someone is "out of your league".

You're all so much sexier than you think you are.

@tollsidares the amount of guys unable to feel attractive is astonishing
If you feel confident enough with your body remember that’s a huge privilege. To help each other I think we must express appreciation more and unlearn body-shaming assumptions towards bodies features in general
@tollsidares Guilty as charged... πŸ˜₯️ Have been called "too fat" and even "too skinny" way too much.
@tollsidares every time I’ve thought someone was out of my league or not interested in me, it turned out they just had anxiety
@tollsidares hello!
Hot body and blog. I’m following you for when the day your exhibitionist side gives in. 😜
@tollsidares It's really odd when somebody I find really hot, finds me really hot. Mostly because I'm over exposed to rejection on the damn Gay "dating" apps
@tollsidares I needed to hear this!
@tollsidares this (and recent experiences) made me also think about psychological and personality characteristics, for example how being sensitive can be a beautiful gift vs something to be self conscious about or sth to view as a weakness.
@tollsidares I needed to read this today, thank you for pinning it on your profile.