Have people actually heard folks in their lives say this? Where I am, best case scenario is that they are ignorant to all that’s happening. But more often they are enjoying it.

Oh I definitely have. I usually follow up with “Would you vote for him again?”

100% of the time they say yes.

These people are a cult

It’s important to realize that in a cult, whether it be a personality cult or religious, the imaginary caricature that they worship has little to do with why they are in it; it’s all about ego washing and pandering to themselves, sometimes in a sunk cost fallacy but plenty of times just simply because they’ve developed a dependency for the illusion to be there, justifying any deviations in reality as just being a deviation of their illusion which should remain forever pristine lest they risk their ego collapsing along with it.