𝓝𝓪𝓼𝓽𝓲 𝓛𝓮𝓼𝓽 🫶💙My fangirling phase would have come as a whole perfect circle had this QUEEN eventually started making her debut on that show someday 🤩😍 (bukan mba yg mukanya ketutupan emot yah 😋) #kasipaham #biarjelas #nusantaratv #fingerscrossed 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
In commemoration with the upcoming Spekta Show themed challenge "Idolanya Idola" (The Idol's Idol night), perhaps this is the right time for me to unveil the meaning of #AdoringResponsibly & #FangirlingwithSubstance campaigns as attached on my bio 😁
These hashtags #AdoringResponsibly & #FangirlingwithSubstance do complement each other when it comes to make such a healthy as well as rational fandom 💕
What does #AdoringResponsibly mean? To adore someone/something with full responsibility means:
● First of all, you accept your idol the way he/she is, start acknowledging that he/she has both good and bad sides just like the rest of us as human being.
● You don't use your favourite idol as justification to attack/harm/insult others.
● You don't smear your idol due to dissapointment or the fact that he/she/it (that thing) did something that did not meet your expectation and blame others for it (even smearing other party that you believe as responsible for such failure)
● And MOST importantly, knowing that there are such things as RIGHTS & LIABILITIES between both parties, you as the fans and your beloved IDOL that need to be respected.
sambil nonton tim kesayangan ayang maen 😁 w mau lanjutin penjelasan #AdoringResponsibility #FangirlingwithSubstance 🤩😍
Then, what does #FangirlingwithSubstance mean? It means that the fangirl/fanboy/idolizing someone kinda activity must add value into your life. It has to be meaningful, just to say the least.
In my #jeketi #jelangkepalatiga phase, such hashtag becomes more relevant than ever. It's more than just to meet the eyes. Back then during our teenage days, we idolize someone because simply he/she has good visual. But as we get older, when it comes to idolize someone be sure that it will not end up like buying cat inside the bag. In other words, someone that you idolize must have values that resonate with yours or you've been aiming for.
#FangirlingWithSubstance is basically #ValuesoverVisual. I mean, when we make someone as our idol, it's not because of her/his good visual, whether he/she is handsome/beautiful ONLY but also the fact that he/she has values that might resonate with your life OR you're aspiring to have, for instance, integrity, determination, strong mentality, empathy, authenticity etc.
Last but not least, not to blindly idolize someone is what do these hashtags #FangirlingWithSubstance #AdoringResponsibly have in common. Because after all, you're idolizing a human being who happens to have such aspiring values/its values might resonate with yours very well. They're not deity/god-like, because human beings are known for making mistakes.
RE: https://mastodon.social/@racunbrigittans/115933671886113805
Kapan hari gue pernah criticize mba Nasti/NSL pas dia viral di tiktok awal tahun ini karena mewawancarai anak2 remaja Makassar yang menjadi saksi mata kejadian pesawat menabrak gunung karena pertanyaan2 beliau yang technical banget, terlalu teknis sampai si anak2 ini susah banget mencerna maksudnya. Makanya mereka jawab sekenanya+mempertahankan identitas Timuran nya dengan logat bicara khas yg mereka miliki :")
Buat yang pengen tahu awal mula gue ketemu NSL dan bagaimana gue end up being her stan since mid 2024, bakalan gue ceritain nanti dlm thread terpisah ygy~ stay tuned 💋