š¹Early to RISA š§Anon makes a wish
SendMePhotosThank you, Anon.
ćøć³Gay: didnāt wish for a blowjob, fake: she probably thinks of him too.
AussiemandeusMy ex from 16 years ago (16 year olds) wished me happy birthday the other week. Was weird weāre both married with kids and never speak at all
BerylYeah just way outta the blue, now the real question is so I have to remember hers now? Cause I donāt think i do haha
If you want to, ask her and put it in your calendar! Itās always nice to know someone remembers you fondly enough to send well wishes š
Yeah, this is great advice. Itās unfortunate when pressure to do social niceties holds you back from enjoying meaningful connection with people. Some people are better at remembering dates than others, and caring enough to ask (and put it in oneās calendar) is at least as powerful a gesture as actually remembering it.
OP could take a jokey tone to things, such as by expressing surprise that she was able to remember, and then asking what her birthday is
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BlueFootedPeteyFake: anon had a girlfriend
Gay: anon had dated someone who had sex with a man
I seriously donāt get whatās fun about this nihilism and gay-shaming.
Itās just a running joke for greentexts to call them āfake and gayā, which became having to come up with some justification to attach both labels to the story instead of just saying it is. This is completely regardless of what the greentext actually consists of.
The more you have to stretch to make the labels fit, the funnier it is.
Yeah, and I find it funny precisely because of the stretching to make the labels ā it makes it feel like itās making fun of people who would unironically call things fake and gay in a manner that was nihilistic and homophobic.
Itās similar to how I hate the āgit gudā gatekeeping that can be quite prominent amongst fans of games like Dark Souls. However, I take great joy in saying āgit gudā in a context where itās patently absurd, like when my housemate arrives home completely drenched from torrential rain. It turns the joke back on the gatekeepy rhetoric
I used to behave this way, but people took me seriously every time. Like saying Veterans should die off, because they are no longer of use (as criticism to our way of seeing humans as expendable) and I became very hated for this.
Genuine question.
Can you see how that is not an obvious absurdist extreme and just sounds like an extreme position that would upset people?
I was not an adult, and rather troubled. I coped in very poor ways.
Ok. Well recognition is a huge hill to overcome. But coping with humor isnāt always bad, communication is a skill that comes with and requires practice.
I hope you find out how to be you while not feeling like you are pushing people away.
I hope you find out how to be you while not feeling like you are pushing people away.
At this point, I donāt even have a choice. I explicitly limited myself to not making new friends, no dating, no sex, and very limited interaction outside of a certain framework. Not only can I not trust myself with humor and reasoning, but humans have also become way too predatory for my taste as of late, so I want to limit my interaction with them in general (Iām working towards having my own food, water, repairing my own stuff, itās all planned).
I deleted PayPal after itās privacy issue, and I have local LLMās on my devices. I am also not buying new devices anymore (Have a 2013 Laptop, a new phone and tablet).
Itās a mixture of humans donāt deserve me, and I donāt (and canāt) deserve humans. Itās also a final decision, I had way too many negative experiences throughout the years, including getting screwed out of medical assistance that I legally have a right to, and being used. So, I am 100% done, we are simply incompatible.
I gotta admit, I like wholesome greentexts
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wonderingwandererI did not expect anything wholesome from this c/ā¦
Ngl I thought this was going to be a really fucked up greentext as soon as I read the word ācancerā.
He got utterly cuckolded, what is not fucked up about this?
RepleteLocumSometimes relationships just donāt work out?
Cool that he is wholesome even then, but he shared quite the moment and relationship with a person he will never see again. It is very one-sided.
Anon is still kind of a loser here, when you think about it, despite doing the right thing.
Zos_KiaHe gave everything to person, got dumped, which is always a risk, but never got a new girlfriend. Now I know this is not what happened, but it makes him look like he got used as a stepping stone, and is still happy about it.
99% of these end in some doomed 30+ year old, being happy about some other thing, while their life is awful, and they rot away slowly.
They all seem so oblivious.
Not sure if trolling or projectingā¦ hope youāre actually doing well though
I never dated in my life, or had sex, soā¦nothing to project.
Iām doing awfully though, and it affects my view of humans in general, and my approach to relationships.
Hence, I wonāt be dating (or posting anymore NSFW things).
Not until the entire right wing is gone, until then, no.
I donāt like to offer empty sympathiesā¦ but I wish I could give a genuine hug. I have an understanding of awful places, and I hope the best for you. Stay up as best you can, cause everyoneās got worth
Did you read it buddy? They broke up and he visited her because she had cancer. Heās basically just happy she didnāt fucking die. Where are you getting that she used him as a stepping stone from?
It seems a bit like this story has triggered you.
CoolkatIs this some fucked up online performance art?
Had me in the first half till I saw the username.
Ok, some downvotes are expected, but like 30 out of nowhere is a clear sign of a bot account. How petty can you be?
DaeAnd not exactly alt-right!
tetris11*hoooh yeeeaah*
Threat Level: Alright
Not neccesarily alt-right
From Pepe on a peddling /pol/ site
Heās a threat, a level
A level level threat
Heās the tamest 4channer
Iāve ever seen yet
Threat level what? Alright
Threat level who? 4channer
Threat level why? Epstein files, gotta release 'em, peace Iām out!
I was thinking of the song The Kids Are Alt-Right by Bad Religion, but this works too
Aeri