ok no seriously i'm all up for open source stuff and owning your tech and not letting big tech control you and stuff
but android is horrendous, it never worked right for me, it's always full of crapware, the bootloaders are often blocked or are a mess to unblock, flashing images usually resorts in me losing any sort of "device verification" so i can't do payments and stuff, i can't really enjoy it.
linux on mobile looks really cool but i still hold back from it because every single time i ask someone to get me help about it, they always either recommend me a weird crapware phone sold in 2012 with partial support (no NFC, no camera, no microphone, nothing) or some new phone but it's just the same android kernel with LESS of the OS-hardware integration i'd like. (i could also buy one of those really expensive linux phones that don't work very well or are severely underpowered)
iOS, right now, is sadly, my best option. I don't care about customization and I can always disable stuff I don't care about, it does the job consistently and even though liquid glass is liquid ass, it still feels more consistent than android