silly_gooseWhat's the best thing that happened to you this week?
My wife and I had been trying for a child. Then she left me 2 weeks ago.
The best thing that happened to me this week was finding out she’s not pregnant.
Also, instead of depair or grief over the separation, literally all I feel is relief.
The best thing that happened to me this week was finding out she’s not pregnant.
Also, instead of depair or grief over the separation, literally all I feel is relief.
Thats really tough, man. Im glad youre holding up okay for now. I’m happy for you to have dodged the baby bullet as well :)
It hit me like a semi truck, cause shit went sideways out of nowhere within 2 weeks.
But she’s moved out without a fuss, our finances are separate, and I kept the cats.
Still kind of numb, but I also massively enjoy the quiet and relaxation right now.
The marriage was exciting, but it was also a constant whirlwind.
But she’s moved out without a fuss, our finances are separate, and I kept the cats.
Still kind of numb, but I also massively enjoy the quiet and relaxation right now.
The marriage was exciting, but it was also a constant whirlwind.
Thats wild, from married to moved out that fast. I’m sorry things turned out that way. I went through a shockingly similar experience last year, so I know how difficult that can be. Grief comes in waves and out of nowhere sometimes. Silver linings like kitties and quiet nights are the little things that can help a lot, I found.
Thanks for your kind words.
Yeah, I’m sure the grief will still come.
And it’ll be hard to achieve my dream of becoming a father now, as a 41 year old single…
Yeah, I’m sure the grief will still come.
And it’ll be hard to achieve my dream of becoming a father now, as a 41 year old single…