@xyla idk depends, if they aren't self-hosting then with the frequency of random drama happening they might not have much of a choice. If they self-host then yeah no excuse
@ij even if they're not self-hosting, at some point you realise you're surrounded with people who love making drama and move to an instance that won't succumb to this bullshit
@xyla I couldn't think of a single instance with more then 10 users that meets this criteria, especially since it's not just the instance admins fault. Say user b you wanna follow is on a instance where the admin dislikes one of your admins or dislikes you and defeds or blocks your user for all users.
@xyla I only had to move once because the infra on my old instance was disastrously bad, and I'm hoping I never have to move again. I'm still fairly new to fedi but I feel like with the hassle it was for me to move I wouldn't want to do that often, let alone subject the people that follow me to that lol