@grumpygamer I checked 3 Makers where i know and trust they make very good Notebooks which have inaudible fans.
Of course, NZ is on the negative shipping list on all three of them. And i thought its hard to get proper Hardware in Japan.
I mean i could just buy one and forward it to you, but if there is every something going wrong, it will be service hell.
starlabs.systems seems to ship there but other than that, you're probably limited to Lenovo and Dell.
I personally migrated to Portable Mini PC, those tiny cubes with a portable 15" (Touch) screens and run them from portable mobile batteries.
Sounds inconvenient at first but saved my life several times in situations, where a notebook would have been cumbersome. Being able to place (or hang) the screen at different positions as they keyboard proved to be insanely flexible.
You can replace every part of it individually and it acts as an full blown desktop at home too and you can use all parts individually. At home, when i use the bid screen, my wife uses the small one for YouTube (or i use it as a second screen) and stuff like that. She uses the mobile battery for the vacuum too :D
Maybe that could be an option for you, but maybe not. I tried to collect some impressions here^^
https://nextcloud.ikaros.space/apps/photos/public/n8jjREZrZ4UtAFNplAQwmycU7VK5Tsr8