Mastodawn

There is a girl named Alexis coming over today to hang out with my daughter.

She’s dating another of my daughter’s friends who is lesbian and openly had a crush on my daughter but they talked about how they had to stay friends because my daughter is straight. That whole situation was no big deal.

Now she’s dating Alexis, who’s been over a few times and seems really engaging for a middle schooler. She just kind of hangs out in an easy-going manner. We’ve had talks about fashion and cooking and music.

She goes by Alex with her parents and non-school friends. I thought that was a nickname like I have for my kids. I was gonna text her parents and my daughter said very seriously “make sure you use he/him pronouns when you talk about her.”

It turns out she is an out Trans girl in middle school, and all her friends protect her by flipping name and pronouns as easily as code-switching. Like, they all think of her as a girl, and they flip to he/him without even really thinking about it.

This is so amazing to me. And so so sad. Like that poor girl is in middle school and already has friends she can trust with her true self more than her family.

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Tyla (Combat Waifu Yuri Arc)Feb 21

And it turns out that I…mean something… to her.

Like, I’m just a normal mom, making pizza dough for a sleepover, making dinner, complaining that her daughter won’t clean her room.

I’m just a boring, annoying mom. And Alexis apparently sees me as a symbol of hope.

😱

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Tattie Feb 21

@FinalGirl I don't know what it's like exactly for a trans kid growing up these days. So like us, so unlike us. They know who they are, but they're growing up being gaslit by every arm of the media into thinking they're either ridiculous or dangerous. One day they're "trenders" who will change their minds in three months, and the next, part of a sinister force that will destroy the country just by existing.

When so much of the world around us cannot be fucking normal about us, I guess it makes sense that "normal" is the most powerful thing we can be.

I'm gonna burn down the fabric of society? Please. I'm just trying not to burn these pizzas.

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Bernie Luckily Does It

@Tattie @FinalGirl I was just thinking a few minutes ago about how some people say we're "trying to destroy the family" and my kids would be utterly shocked by that proposition. I guess I'm just really incompetent at it.