I just hugged my 17-yo son goodnight. It was a good hug. We always tell each other "I love you." I hugged him at drop-offs in elementary school and other parents lamented "I wish my kids hugged me." I know every kid is different, but our kids hug us because we always hugged them. That's the secret.
@danielpunkass My 16yo just converted from hugging to lifting me. :-)

@danielpunkass I wish that were true. My 11 year old gives me a hug when he goes to school.

One of the twins (8) just says bye the other pretends I don’t exist and runs off.

Same parents. Heck the twins even share DNA and they act completely different šŸ˜…

@kp yep! That’s the ā€œevery kid is differentā€ part!
@danielpunkass our kids eat salad because that was on the table with nothing else before dinner (for a long time when they were younger anyway). They eat vegetables because that’s the majority of what we served (even before I joined my wife as a vegetarian). Nothing is foolproof and we’re not perfect- but like you say, what you do as a parent matters.
@danielpunkass Nice!
Feeling loved and seeing love and appreciation being displayed by one’s parents is a helluva drug.
@danielpunkass You also excited for them to head off into the big world (presumably college) but at the same time dreading them heading off into the big world? I might need to see a doc for some happy pills come August, I suspect I'm going to be a mess.
@danielpunkass šŸ’Æsame here with all mine.