I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it
Someone posted a reply saying that computers were harder in the past so it's fine they're hard now, which earned them an instant block. Thanks for identifying yourself as the kind of person I want nothing to do with
@jalefkowit I'm sure computers were much easier in the past in many ways. I get exceedingly angry about all the dark patterns and BS my 12yo has to put up with these days.

@jtonline They were bad in the old days, but it was more excusable then (IMO) because the whole field was so new. Everybody had to figure out from scratch what worked and what didn't. Plus computers were much slower and had less resources; there weren't CPU cycles available for things like nice interfaces.

Today we know what works and we have the resources to do it. We just don't, because someone can make more money by making things hard

@jalefkowit true, fiddling with little switches to get a mouse working was definitely bad! And it definitely seems like the incentives are all wrong these days. :(
@jtonline @jalefkowit My mother in law had to force-reboot her laptop the other day, but couldn't because she has arthritis and the stupid, artfully designed tiny little power button was too small and tough for her to push.

@jalefkowit @DJDarren @jtonline

My mum did just fine with a BBC micro and specific keyboard commands for markup in word processing which my dad printed and stuck to the noticeboard for her. Mum learned the 5 or 6 most useful by heart. Same for Claris Works and Apple System 7.x.

The UI didn't change. The computer did not pop shit up at her. There was no spam (or Internet).

I was also home 90% of the time to fix or talk Mum thru stuff patiently cos Mr Computing Degree Dad got grumpy.

@NatalyaD @jalefkowit @DJDarren UIs randomly changing is a huge thing!
@NatalyaD @jalefkowit @DJDarren and I'm getting more grumpy about stealth menus all over the place: vertical hamburgers, horizontal hamburgers, upside down ^s, etc. etc.

@jtonline

3 vertical dots. And the other 3 dots in a subtly different place. (Yes, MS Office, that is you!)

And the cog.

And the horizontal dots.

Or the V click down triangle open or coloured in.

And Win 11 whose different settingses don't even properly overlap (and breaking a load of features).

I live in Linux at home. It's not perfect but it is 95% less bad and annoying. And has better fucking fonts.

@jalefkowit @DJDarren

@NatalyaD @jalefkowit @DJDarren doh, v was a much easier description than upside down ^!

@jtonline

I've had more recent opportunity to type it... And I knew what you meant, which is all that matters.

@jalefkowit @DJDarren