@Froogal keep posting and interacting and you'll find your people!
What do you like to talk about?
@Froogal you're in good company then, we have tons of furries and software folks on fedi. I love some cuteness and software myself :3
Do you have any languages or frameworks you like a lot?
@Froogal I do enjoy C# and Typescript a lot, in spite of my disdain for Microsoft 😂
I tend to be a defensive programmer, and I check edge cases and error scenarios very carefully. So using type-safe languages tends to align with my programming style.
I'm also partial to using "result" style return values, which can have a return value or an error object. I've been meaning to try Rust for this reason, but other languages have equivalents of this (sometimes needing a library for it)
Yourself?

@Froogal Also, I wouldn't feel like you have to learn a particular language. Treat it as a tool, and pick up a language if you think it'll help accomplish a task or project. Or heck, if you just want to learn it for fun!
Though, the demand for languages is different in the work force. So you may want to focus on certain technologies if looking for a job