He's so close to getting it...

https://lemmy.world/post/43455623

youtube.com/shorts/4bpL14Z9RKE

The only guys who are going to approach you are the guys with no boundaries. Which is going to feed the confirmation bias.

“I Hate When Guys Approach Me”

YouTube
I was going to respond at least somewhat affirming what you said and then I saw who you linked. Gross. Can’t stand BilleRaeBrandt. Nothing but an apologist for misogyny.
I don’t know who that is, I simply searched “men not approaching” in YouTube search. There’s no shortage of similar contradictory content. Women are not a monolith, so it stands to reason that some genuinely don’t want to be approached at all, and some do, but since we’re not psychic, that just leaves respectful men not approaching as a default position.
I guess she is a youtuber or tiktoker or whatever who will make a short video about a hetero relationship that (as far as I have ever seen) always blames the woman for why things have gone wrong with their dating attempts or existing relationships, etc. It’s never the man’s fault.