alr yall it's time for another #homelab #askfedi i have a sms group chat that's starting to feel a little cramped, and im looking to self host a solution. lots of folks in there are familiar with discord but more are opposed to it. I've been looking into the whole element/matrix thing and from what i've found firsthand it seems a good fit, but i've heard chatter that something about it is whack, what am i missing? #duckduckfedi