Michael Integritas

No one is worthless. Power exchange dynamics cannot ignore mental health, and we must temper fantasy with reality. subs are not worthless; I would argue that if a sub was indeed worthless, they would be of no value to a Dom. In fact, a worthless/valueless individual would be a liability to anyone they enter into a relationship with.

Know your worth, know your value, and guard your mental health. It's just as precious as your physical health.

Jan 27 at 2:38pmWeb
Show threadLa Kwaaaaa BoyJan 27
@sentimentaldom Weirdly enough I always know a bad Dom when he complains that I'm too "bratty", especially outside of scenes. It's one of the reasons I explicitly say I don't do long-term TPE, even though I'm open to it with the right people. Filters out these guys pretty quickly.
Show threadMichael IntegritasJan 27
@dkub just like any other form of relationship, power exchange dynamics will only thrive when all parties involved are feeling safe, nurtured, and cared for. I've always been at odds with the whole "bratty' thing because it oversimplifies behaviors without clear understanding.
Show threadTimothy TibiaJan 27
@sentimentaldom low self esteem as a sub sure can lead to unfortunate situations. or no situations at all if one is not even seeking doms out in fear of not being worth their while.
Show threadOlympus MonsTerJan 28
@sentimentaldom - I've always been of the impression that a sub should be a Dom's most prized possession. ... Where did the idea that they should be worthless even come from?