@AndiBarth when I did the setup for my small virtual server, I decided for #lighttpd, mainly because it's called light and supposedly it is; php seems to work just as well as with apache, but most of my content is static files. I have no complaints but I'm really just a casual user/admin, so probably wouldn't notice many things. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lighttpd notes: No HTTP/3 support.
I have too little experience to say use it instead of apache, just wanted to mention it.