US boy, 11, allegedly shoots father to death after Nintendo Switch taken away

https://sh.itjust.works/post/53615106

Yeah, my kid is way too unpredictable, there’s is absolutely no way that I could ever have a firearm in my home or else this will be me or my wife, 100% certainty. We regularly get punched, kicked, bitten, etc almost daily. When he’s angry (which is often) he just can’t think, and then he regrets his actions later, but he does some dumb shit when he’s angry…

Bro. You can’t just accept this. Get the kid in therapy before he becomes a horrible adult.

Harsh? Come on, man. Help the kid!

We have more professionals involved than you’d believe. Trust me, we’re working on it, but change is a slow road. You may have heard for instance that therapy only works if you want to change, well if a nine year old isn’t mature enough to want to change or be willing to participate in the process, well that also slows things down.

At the risk of being blunt here, I’m not really looking for parenting advice, I’m actually pretty sure we’re doing a decent job despite a particularly hard kid with some very real challenges.

But I do sincerely see that you mean well, and want to help, so thank you.

I have two boys with autism. Some of this resonates. Have you had him tested? I imagine you have but just in case. Good luck.
47 year old autist, hells yeah. Easier learning to deal with malfunctioning regulation as a kid than as an adult after a string of fuckups
I mean catching it early is the best as opposed to finding out later. Best of luck