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This is what I don’t get about the manosphere movement.

Young guys watch these influencers being abrasive macho dorks, talking exactly like this. They somehow combine that “dorky, petty semantic minutia” argument style with being aggressively condescending and being a macho jerk, all at once. I’m a pretty isolated guy, yet it’s amazing how grating it is to me.

And men watching these influencers conclude that… other people will appreciate that?

Because the other side tells you that you suck and your problems are not real.

If you are a boy and you look around one side blaming you for all of societies ills and the other simply is not what aide are you going to gravitate to?

Why do you think there are two sides and one of them is blaming men?
One side has crated an entire vocabulary around gender where ever male gendered term is something bad. How else can that be interpreted?

So there are two sides. Everyone in the world falls into one these sides. And all of one side got together and came up with a new set of words. These words they demand everyone use and each has built into them explanations that men are bad.

Can you point to evidence that supports this theory? If it was half of the people I assume there are some large communities these words are heard often but I’ve never heard the…

I was talking about the language used in gender discussion. And yes, in my country there really is no other side beside facist and liberal/left.