Because I'm weird, I like thought exercises. And I wondered how I would teach younng men about success with their preferred partner, like those Alpha Sigma Gamma type bros reckon they can.

Be kind. Not transactionally, but because that's what you want to see in the world.

Be confident. Not arrogant, just secure in yourself, in who you are.

That's it. I'm not an expert by any means, just my thoughts and there's every chance I'm wrong