Joined a sissy discord and started playing "the good son", and it's clarified a few things, starting with "If this is what sissy is, I'm not a sissy". In a spirit of pure scientific enquiry I've tried tasting (my own) cum and, no, doesn't do anything for me.

* https://medium.com/@kemenatan/its-just-a-fetish-right-91cb0a4e261
* https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/beneath-the-surface

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It’s Just a Fetish, Right? - Amanda Roman - Medium

When I was 18 years old, I discovered my most secret, shameful fantasy written out in plain text on the Internet. It was a short story that perfectly captured the kind of magical scenario I’d been…

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but pretty damn certain nonetheless that however much I enjoy wearing lingerie or figure-hugging lycra I still identify as male (with the philosophical caveat that if gender identity is an interior thing then who's to say my "male" corresponds with your "male" or their "male", idk) and so the question "what needs are your kinks sublimating?" is yet unanswered.

That was a little garbled and could be read as I'm conflating sissy and trans - which I absolutely am not and would never.

I'm trying to make two separate points:

- I enjoy wearing lingerie, but, it turns out I don't like a lot of the other stuff that goes with the "sissy" label. No judgement if you do, but I don't.

- separately, while noting that fetish is a sexual sublimation of a non-sexual need, I remain insistent that my gender identity is male. So the need must be something else

@zentied Whatever you decide to call it, it should be beneficial and bring you joy.

@zentied
For what it's worth, I'm a cis man, not a sissy, and love wearing skirts and hose.

Be the male you feel you are.. Nobody has the right to tell you you're doing it wrong.

@zentied your gender and identity is not dependant or linked to whatever bs norms society demands.

Remember: #ClothesHaveNoGender!

- Sent by a fellow lingerie enjoyer...

https://rubber.social/@F3715H/115365378978299717