WashedupcynicDec 19

Which of your most fucked up exes tried to come back to your life in the most fucked up way?

https://lemmy.ca/post/57142299

Which of your most fucked up exes tried to come back to your life in the most fucked up way? - Lemmy.ca

I’ll go first. My ex cheated on me with a dude, (I’m les, she’s bi,) brought home chlamydia and bed bugs, then after 13 years of no contact, texts me randomly to try and pull me into an MLM pyramid scheme.

Show threadOkokimup

Divorced over a decade, no contact since. My ex and I were in a stupid cult when we married, and apparently he still is. They don’t allow remarriage unless one partner has “committed adultery.” He wrote saying he sees online that I’m living with another dude, but can I confirm whether or not I’ve had sex?

I ignored it.

Dec 19 at 6:51pmWeb
Show threadneidu3Dec 19
I don’t blame you for ignoring it, but I read that as a request for confirmation whether they could remarry or not.
Show threadphdepressedDec 19
This is funnier and takes even less effort though.
Show threadneidu3Dec 19
Not sure how awful you would want to be in that situation, but with a lot more effort it could be even funnier without any words but a lewd picture instead, if your partner is up for it.
Show threadCanadaPlusDec 20
I actually feel bad for the dude, though.
Show threadphdepressedDec 20
I mean I don’t know specifics obviously but cults aren’t exactly women-forward tmk so I don’t tend to have much sympathy for the men in one.
Show threadchilicheeseliesDec 20
Everyone regardless of gender typucally get abused in cults except for the leader.
Show threadOkokimupDec 20
You are correct, but so is the above commentor. Women were considered subservient to the men.
Show threadClentDec 21

Pity won’t save anyone from a cult.

A cult can feed on outsider’s pity.

Show threadCanadaPlusDec 21

If this is the last straw to leave it, sure, that’s worth it.

As it is it just sounded like spite, though. C’mon, it’s been years and the dude just wants a yes or no so he can move on.

Show threadhydrashokDec 19
“Sorry, but after our relationship I became celibate and it’s been great. Good luck! Please don’t contact me again.”
Show threadOkokimupDec 20
He can remarry. We’re divorced. Its between him and the cult of they want to punish him for it. I refuse to give them any power.
Show threadsilentdonDec 19
“No I haven’t had sex yet but I’ll let you know the moment that I do” followed by blocking them
Show threadkrooklochurmDec 20
You should write him back and say you’ve been fucking the cult leaders for years just to see what happens.