Melissa BearTrixDec 18

Very important poll ... Yes it's rare that I am serious

If your cis have you ever been missed gendered ?

I'm trying to prove something and this is scientific.

Boost, I need numbers ... Thank you

Thank you all for voting and comments ... Hugz

Yes
45.1%
No
40.7%
I'm trans {💜U}
14.2%
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Show threadDoubleTreble 🇺🇦🥰🇵🇸🌍🇨🇦😺🇬🇱💚🧶Dec 18

@MelissaBearTrix

I'm cis female but six foot tall, when much younger I wore my hair very short 🤔
So it happened alot.

Show threadQuirky George 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇬🇧🇪🇺
@DoubleTreble @MelissaBearTrix yeah I think if you're a tall female person whether cis or trans you get misgendered accidentally by ignorant and unobservant people who assume that if you are tall you must be a man, also if you have short hair, as long hair is something only girls have, obviously.. my only cis m child had hair down to his bum throughout his teens and was misgendered daily.
Dec 18 at 8:30pmWeb
Show threadQuirky George 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇬🇧🇪🇺Dec 18
@DoubleTreble @MelissaBearTrix conversely I also think if you are a tall, attractive women you will get a minority of spiteful people ( mainly white males I'm afraid) who will (possibly subconsciously) misgender you as a deliberate way to try to wreck your self esteem and prevent you getting big headed. .. and I think this will also happen whether you are cis or trans. It probably hurts the fuck more if you're trans though.
Show threadmupan 📚Dec 18
@Fizzfizzpopop @DoubleTreble @MelissaBearTrix During my childhood, stories of men gazing at a back and ass with nice long blonde hair, trying to flirt, and then realizing it’s a bloke and feeling mislead, fooled, or fucked were »comedy« on TV.
Show threadChloé RaccoonDec 18
@Fizzfizzpopop @DoubleTreble @MelissaBearTrix @PetraPhoenix I keep threatening to have this tshirt made up for this reason. http://www.raccoons.co.uk/~chloe/imgur/764%20-%20fYQOXt7.png
Show threadPetraDec 18

@chloeraccoon @Fizzfizzpopop @DoubleTreble @MelissaBearTrix

10/10 would wear

Show threadMelissa BearTrixDec 18

@chloeraccoon @Fizzfizzpopop @DoubleTreble @PetraPhoenix

Love the t-shirt

Hugz & xXx

Show threadQuirky George 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇬🇧🇪🇺Dec 19
@MelissaBearTrix @chloeraccoon @DoubleTreble @PetraPhoenix rather strangely I don't mind being misgendered at all, I'm not fussed if I come across as male or female to people, and I tend to think that if someone misgenders me they've just labelled themselves either an idiot or a wanker. Or both. Which saves me time finding out about them. However, I really hate being called either sir or madam. I feel grossly insulted and massively pissed off with them whatever. Why do we even need such stupid words. Just treat people respectfully rather than messing around pretending with words..
Show threadCaiotekit CreationsDec 19

@Fizzfizzpopop @MelissaBearTrix @chloeraccoon @DoubleTreble @PetraPhoenix

You bring up a good point here. When I did my grocery pickup last week, I had a new person. He had long hair and lipstick, which confused me for a moment, because I didn't want to misgender him or her. But in the long run it didn't matter, they wear name tags and I can just call them by their names.