Danielle Foré“Transgender for everybody”, but unironically. As in, spend some time deconstructing your gender and then actively choose what gender roles and expressions you actually do and don’t want to perform. Deconstruct your sexuality too. Deconstruct your religion. Deconstruct anything you were indoctrinated into so you can be authentically you
emple_adra_@danirabbit a cishet friend (who happens to be an ex) went hard into her deconstruction when several events last year made her question basically everything
it's been cute and fun to guide her in a very similar way i guide any other queer people, from watching her embrace her newfound self love and rediscovering the joy of living to helping her set up limits and identify harmful patterns