Danielle Foré“Transgender for everybody”, but unironically. As in, spend some time deconstructing your gender and then actively choose what gender roles and expressions you actually do and don’t want to perform. Deconstruct your sexuality too. Deconstruct your religion. Deconstruct anything you were indoctrinated into so you can be authentically you
Amanda@danirabbit to me, deconstruction was essentially a trap. I’d been deconstructing things my whole life as one of the most contrarian people I know of. I could deconstruct anything to find untruths but I couldn’t *be* anything because I could only find things I wasn’t. That took a different, much more constructive approach.
The way I see it I built a new myself, as authentic, artificial or real as the previous one. I just like being this one.