ItzTrainI don't know if I'm just being stupid about this or not, but i find myself pulling away from tailscale. I don't know .. The abstraction been dope, but when things breaks it adds a bit of complexity. I guess any other thing would be the same. I just slapped this thing everywhere and it's sort of getting old! Starting to remove a lot of it.
selfhosting.couchsurfing@train I'm using it with Headscale and it seems fairly stable in most cases, but I'm starting to investigate ZeroTier because it's a layer 2 solution which handles things like UDP and (theoretically, haven't tried this) broadcast traffic.
I haven't set up my own coordination server for ZeroTier yet but that's on the docket, I absolutely will not use the company's system long term, same with Tailscale or any other such entity. being able to self-host the coordination server is a hard requirement for me.
Pete Keen@train same, sort of. In my most recent revamp I have TS doing management-layer stuff (deploys and metrics collection) but primary access is almost entirely on the local network. External ingress proxies (at Fly and a Vultur VPS) also use local network addresses via a subnet router.
cosmiction@train maybe try out netbird (https://netbird.io).
Ken