A good while back, when I was in a really dark place, someone on Fedi paid me a nice compliment that made my day. I saved it.

I've been saving them ever since—every time someone's compliment makes my day better.

I have hundreds now.

All these little snapshots of kindness.

I look at them when I'm feeling down and having intrusive thoughts sometimes—they always make me feel better about the world, and about myself.

#Gratitude #KindnessIsPunkAF

Y'all should take a moment today to compliment someone (besides me 😋).

And if someone gives you a compliment—believe it!

You're all amazing people, and I won't entertain any replies to the contrary 💝

@alice
Believing compliments is just not how I'm built. Even giving them sometimes feels hard, but I do it anyway and it's getting easier. Thanks for the reminder

@alice
Funny thing: Together with other parents I'm doing a volunteer service for the local traffic police. Every morning at school days two of us are at an intersection as traffic guides. Originally we stop the traffic when school kids arrive at the intersection and let them cross the street, but since there are also elderly people in our village, we guide everyone across the intersection.

Anyway, last week I was doing my service when a bunch of school kids came up. In the winter months the mornings are quite dark in germany and visibility of pedestrians is always an issue. Before I stop the traffic I usually turn my head to the kids, say "Good morning!" And when they cross the street behind me I say "Have fun at school!". But in that particular group one of the girls had a new backpack. There were two tubes on it, running from the top down to the bottom along the left and the right corner of the backpack. And I'm not sure if there were diffused LEDs in there of if it was EL-wire, but they were glowing. Not in a bright, blinding way but bright enough to make her perfectly visible in the dark.

So when I turned around and say "Good morning!" to the group, I added "Hey, your backpack is very cool! I wish I had one of those when I was a school kid!". And she beamed back at me: "Yeah, I love it, too!". I stepped out into the traffic and said: "Here you go, have fun at school!"

Fuck, was that backpack cool!

@alice
You are the amazing person!

But ok, let speak about someone else: @h3mmy is a delightful person that is way too kind and patient with me  

Also my buns (@Moondancer, @AstraCeleste, @ArtemisCeleste and Selena (can't mention zir account from this server 😿)) are all lovely cuties 💜

@koalou

Awwww. Thanks love. Tu es très mignonne aussi. Je t'aime, ma belle petite amie.

@alice @h3mmy @Moondancer @ArtemisCeleste
@koalou

I respectfully disagree lol.
🩵

@h3mmy @alice @ArtemisCeleste @Moondancer

@AstraCeleste

Moi aussi! Tu es très belle u//w//u

@h3mmy @koalou @alice @ArtemisCeleste

@Moondancer
No! è_é
I can accept cute on good days but don’t push it  (I need the version where the cat is biting the bun >_<)

@AstraCeleste @h3mmy @alice @ArtemisCeleste

@koalou

Wait so you're going to bite me if I call you beautiful?

...

I only have more incentive to call you beautiful now.

@AstraCeleste @h3mmy @alice @ArtemisCeleste

@Moondancer
Oooor, I could *stop* biting you when you do that. I wouldn’t want to reward bad behaviour  

@AstraCeleste @h3mmy @alice @ArtemisCeleste