I forget how I first followed @jeffperera.bsky.social but I think our first conversation online came up on today's date. December 6 - it's a weird moment we shared despite a gap in age, context, and distance when December 6, 1989 events affected us.

Thoughtful and timely, though not exactly cheering, post from Jeff, as always.

This crossed my timeline just minutes past midnight, as I was reading an article on the Gen-AI enabled online abuse of women and girls. Only days after learning of a young welder in Minnesota brutally beaten to death at work, by a male coworker who "didn't like how she looked at him".

Thirty-six damn years ago we said "First mourn then work for change."

I am so. Damn. Tired. of the mourning part.

I should only ever have learned these names if I had met them as graduates or working in professional roles in the Canadian engineering sector.

Instead I memorized them decades ago while laying white roses at memorial gardens at other engineering schools.

#14NotForgotten #Polytechnique

@johannab I didn't know them either, yet I wept. I remember walking out of a U of T engineering building 36 years ago, listening to the news unfold on my Walkman.
@Michaels it was just dumbfounding at the time. My first-year eng101 class - 22 of 90 were women, IIRC - was literally writing our very first engineering exam at that hour. We walked out of the exam hall to find several of our professors and graduate TAs had come over to the building to meet us as we left, and let us know. They wanted to make sure we all had a safe walk home, or someone to talk to. It was so unreal. Nobody slept that night, and not for studying.
@johannab I had also just finished writing an exam; 4th year thermodynamics. The rest of the day was a daze. I just couldn't believe what happened.