So: why #Sweden?

Last year Caitrín finished school, Ntando finished her Pacific ship contract, and I was living in a basic rental place in Pretoria. It was time to move on.

Aidan and Caitrín are now both in #Ireland, doing their different things successfully. I wanted to be nearby enough to see them regularly, but also treat them as independent adults who don't need their Dad hanging about. Also, Ntando and I want a next life together, concentrating on our own goals and adventures. We have no other dependents, so let's make the most of it.

On top of that, we had had enough of Ntando's twilight existence as an immigrant in #SouthAfrica. The #Zimbabawe passport doesn't travel well. Though we'd decided we wanted to live in #Europe for a while, we needed to figure out how she could get in, stay in, and work and study.

We're using #EuropeanUnion freedom of movement rules to help us. Because I'm #Irish, I have nearly unrestricted freedom of movement in Europe. When I arrived in October, I registered as a Irish citizen living in Sweden, pretty simple. Then we got Ntando a Schengen visa. Now she is applying at #Migrationsverket as a non-EU citizen joining her EU spouse in Sweden. If and when she is granted a right to stay in this way, she'll be given a residence card that entitles her to live, work and study in Sweden, so long as our marriage continues as it is. This is a decision by the Swedish state, so it doesn't provide her with the right to travel in Europe. But we'll solve that afterwards.

@malmorrow I wish you the best of luck. I lived the equivalent of what Ntando will. The experience of getting residence permits deteriorated dramatically in the post-Covid/rise of political right era. I hope that Ntando does not have to wait for months like I did.
@malmorrow Very cool, for you, Ntando and the kids! Living in another country (which I know you've done a lot of, based on previous conversations we've had) is just incredible. Learning different cultures, even ones similar to your own, but different in sometimes unexpected ways, is awesome. Really broadens one's mental horizon and worldview. And living is Europe is incredible, with all that then exists on your doorstep. Very happy for you!