A lot of white people get u comfortable and then upset when you talk about the harm done by white people to other races. About actual factual things that have happened. Then they say that you’re trying to make them feel bad about being white. About real things that have happened. Basically, if you aren’t stroking their ego constantly and telling them how wonderful they are, you might as well be calling them dogshit, for how they take it. And that is some kind of ego right there.