If it destroys your social circle, you need a new social circle.

I will report back how it goes (gonna do that today in the evening). I have to do it since I started HRT now and so I kinda want to avoid for people to realise changes without knowing I’m trans.

Also I dont want to hide who I really am any longer.

That’s fair. I’m in the … Enviable?… position, that I don’t have a social circle to come out to. So I’ll just take it as it comes.