@fox you say Linux isn't a good desktop, which doesn't fill me with confidence in your choice, it reminds me of how I felt ~15 years ago.
I've used numerous distros, Debian included, and for people coming from Windows with no exposure I just wouldn't recommend it.
Ubuntu was a better experience for me than Debian, but nowadays I prefer NixOS for its declarative configuration and ability to restore to previous configurations via grub.
I do understand the idealistic objections to Ubuntu though.