The sooner you realize that every single one of us are fully capable of bad takes, horrible ideas, and self-centered actions, the sooner we will move on as a society and a species.

It’s the SUM which counts. Try to do good in the world. You WILL fuck it up occasionally. Just keep trying for good.

@FeloniousPunk
As a teen, I made some really shitty choices, mostly because my entire mind was occupied with teen stuff, and I couldn't be bothered to see anybody who did not go to extreme lengths to get my attention.
Nowadays, when I'm all out of spoons I still make some pretty shit choices.
From my own poor behaviour I know that most people are not deliberately assholes. I guess my one redeeming quality is I'm quite good at not judging. Maybe too good. There is a balance to be found :)