The split personality of Americans -
The most peace-loving, pro-democratic cohort on planet Earth with the largest, most violent and most expansive military empire (and internal security apparatus) in human history.
To put the finest point on it possible
Every time Democrats flexed their tough guy bona fides at the border, or attacked "defund" while calling for *more* police funding, or bemoaned crime-ridden cities, or talked about having the most lethal military in the world, or celebrated deportation levels, they were creating the conditions and financing the infrastructure for Trump's domestic assault on urban centers. You don't get to dabble in fascism and then complain when things get out of hand.
This is the lesson for the next election:
The person you're voting for - are their policies pro-fascism? If so, that means they're a fascist. And if you're voting for them, guess what that makes you...
Your electeds and your fellow constituents are either standing against fascism or they are authorizing and supporting it irrespective of whatever finely-tuned, respectable "level" of fascism they're shooting for.
Make your choice.