How the cookie we knew would crumble, has actually crumbled

@JulianOliver

I have a load of respect for her. I wonder why she’s not posting here? Maybe because she hasn’t found the same supportive community she finds on bsky? (BTW, the moderators on your instance terminated my account there because of my pro-Palestine toots. Masto doesn’t live up to the hype in my book).

@micchiato White racists ran her down, I doubt she's ever coming back. Quite understandable really.

Bsky is effectively one instance, one moderation culture. Mastodon has many instances, many different cultures. I run a couple of nodes myself.

But sure, if you get stung, you don't think "what hive". You just think "bees".

That's true but also even being on a very well-moderated instance doesn't insluate you from the culture -- Dr. Johnathan Flowers talks about this in The Whiteness of Mastodon. And, one of the things that she (and others) highlighted were the problems with white users telling Black users that they should just change instances. Here's a screenshot of tweet from hers back in the day (not sure if the tweet still exists, I have the screeenshot because I included it in the "view from 2022" section of Mastodon: a partial history.

@JulianOliver @micchiato

@jdp23 @micchiato Blergh, I did not know that was a thing. So very toxic.

Oh yeah. There are a bunch of other common things in the "Common Mistakes to Avoid" section of 5 things white people can do to start making the fediverse less toxic for Black people

BTW I remember we once talked about community-run infrastructure as a form of self-hosting (or something along those lines), Blacksky is very much an example of that. Not sure if you've ever read Rudy Fraser's 3-part series "Blacksky: Expressing the Black Everyday in a New Digital Space" but it's got some great grounding for the work he's been doing.

@JulianOliver @micchiato

5 things white people can do to start making the fediverse less toxic for Black people

Anti-Blackness is a long-term problem in the fediverse. Now's a good time to start changing that.

The Nexus Of Privacy
@jdp23 @JulianOliver @micchiato Hijacking this a little to ask if you have recommendations for non-white groups or hashtags outside of the US? I'd love to follow people outside my bubble, but as a European I don't need more US-related stuff in my life 😅

Great question but unfortunately I don't have any good recommendations here. I boosted in hopes somebody else does!

@xavier @JulianOliver @micchiato

@jdp23 @xavier @JulianOliver @micchiato

There's a map of curated instances at http://mastodon-near.me/ which lets you see where instances are based.
(It also interesting to look at generally)

Fedi Garden has a region list, still north-heavy tbh: https://fedi.garden/fediverse-servers-sorted-by-country-and-region/
FG is restricted to particular moderation approaches though.

Fediverse Party has a longer server list: https://fediverse.party/en/portal/servers/

There's still more outside these lists, paktodon.asia springs to mind.

Fediverse Near Me

A curated selection of well-moderated Social Web providers that are are open for registration and serving specific countries, regions or cities. [[https://jaz.co.uk/projects/mastodon-near-me/|Project Home/Message me]] [[https://jaz.co.uk/projects/startheresocial/shs-language/|Search by Language]]

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@jdp23 @xavier @JulianOliver @micchiato

Due to friction in discovery of Fedi in general, you're often better off going to servers outside your bubble and finding people there, because eg: hashtags won't really let you discover people the same way as on "one big" networks.